A cougar is a hunter who preys on an innocent younger man. Some guys are naturally drawn to older women like any other physical "type," such as preferring blondes to brunettes.

I have been a consistent member of the "Cougar Club" since my husband passed away.

With couples like Demi and Ashton, older women and younger men pairings are becoming more mainstream. As women age gracefully and have more choices, dating younger men can be more appealing than dating men of the same age, especially if those older men have baggage (divorce, ex-wife, etc.) Younger men offer an exhilarating ride as you start dating them.

And, more evolved than the stereotypical sugar mama preying on a boy toy.

The younger man’s adventurous nature is contagious and exploring life together offers excitement, especially in the new season of your life.3.

Matches Your Expectations Before you start dating, figure out your relationship expectations.