To be clear, she's talking about the magic number of men she may multitask at any given moment."There's a tier system," explains Truax, 34, who notes that, with the exception of scattered makeouts, she "fools around" with only one guy at a time."I've had plans to have dinner with one guy and then somebody I like better will text me about drinks and I'll do that instead.Chances are, Shannon Truax is going on a date tonight. It might be Mike*, whom she took home last week after drinks at a chic hotel bar, or Amrit, with whom she sparked up a conversation at a work event last month — or another of the 11 (yes, 11) guys she's currently juggling in her romantic rotation via Facebook, Twitter, text, and e-mail.

Have your friends lost patience with you because you’re late all the time? The condition starts in childhood, but it can stay into adulthood. '' If you have the condition, your loved ones and friends might have a hard time getting your full attention.

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''People with ADHD very much intend to do something when they say it. '' Do you feel like you’re always getting blamed for forgetting things, when you know no one actually told you about them?

It’s not like some problems where people lie or are deceitful,'' says Steven Safren, Ph D, director of behavioral medicine in the department of psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital. Consider this: The condition often causes people to forget things they’re told.